Recent content by 130munch

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    Should we calling the police?

    I've posted before re: my son & his girlfriend, both 25, w/2 mth old. He works/she doesn't, he strives to be a responsible father, she strives to party while he stays home w/baby. She comes home at 2-3am beligerantly drunk - he leaves & comes to my house to get away from her, yet he worries...
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    Hey - it is worth it to complain about a moderator here - and if so, where do you do it? One...

    Hey - it is worth it to complain about a moderator here - and if so, where do you do it? One moderator in particular has given me & others a hard time on a lot of our posts - instead of answering the question at hand this mod would rather judge and condescend as if she's Judge Judy.
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    Custody chances?

    I will urge him to seek joint custody, but do you have any suggestions of what he should do when she is in a drunken rage in the middle of the night? If he leaves alone the baby is in danger. If he stays, quite frankly, they are both in danger.
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    Custody chances?

    No court orders of any kind.
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    Custody chances?

    Propserpina: "(polite hint: copping an attitude before anyone has had the chance to respond is not going to encourage people to want to help you. Jes' sayin'.)" I hear what you are saying and I'm sorry if I came across like that. I do appreciate the polite hint and the way you delivered it...
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    Custody chances?

    Jacksgal - don't know what to tell you. I've posted here several times because my son keeps telling me he doesn't know what to do. I've urged him to come on this site & post his own questions, but he hasn't. I'm frustrated with his situation too because he keeps coming to me very upset and I...
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    Custody chances?

    He siged birth certificate too
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    Custody chances?

    Good question - He's 95% certain he is, but there is a slight chance he's not. I know the first step in custody would be to establish parentage.
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    Custody chances?

    One more thing - if he were to call the cops during her next middle of the night drinking/fighting binge so he could leave with the baby, which I'm assuming the cops would agree is the best thing - what would his odd be of getting an emergency order for temporary custody granted under the...
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    Custody chances?

    I'm seeking advice for my 25 yr od son, who asked me to help. So, if you want to help thanks - but if your take is going to be some snide "stay out of it - it's not your business" comment, do me a favor & stay out of this post. It is my business - this is my granddaughter, I’ve been asked to...
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    False Police Report Allowed

    Not a teen drama, these are two people in their late 20's. Not trying to extend the drama - trying to hold her accountable - what's wrong with that?
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    False Police Report Allowed

    My son's ex GF filed a false police report stating he won't stop texting her when actually, it's the other way around. She's been texting him - he keeps texting back "Stop texting - I don't want to talk to you". My son was working when the officer called so I explained what's been going...
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    What to do? Paternity test needed-then visitation rights

    My son's former girlfriend is due in March. They tried to live together but it didn't work out. Now she is angry at him for not living with her & vows that he will never see the baby - not at the birth and not anytime after that. My son says there is a slight chance this is not his child...
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    Small Claims & Counties

    Thanks - I did some research & according to the Cook County website & I believe the suit should have been filed at the Rolling Meadows Courthouse since the service took place in Arlington Heights. What, if anything, should I do about that?
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    Returned check fee

    If your check is returned for a payment made to an individual (not a business) can they charge you what ever fee they want or are they limited to only charge you what their bank charged them for the returned item?
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