Vanessa Lane
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- Texas
Ok Ill try to make a very long story as short as possible.
Back in 2015 my husband caught me having an affair. I got mad that I was caught, and attacked him. He restrained me, and called the police. When they got there they took HIM to jail, and I made up a big lie to protect myself from any charges. His lawyer convinced him to take probation rather than risk a trial. So for the past few years he has been dealing with the probation nonsense.
Well, a few months back he caught me having another affair (with a convicted child molester) and again he was heartbroken, and angry. Last month on his birthday I was going to leave to go to my affair partner, and my husband tried to block the doorway, and keep me from going. I grabbed a pair of scissors, and stabbed him with them. When I did he absolutely snapped. He grabbed me, and slammed me to the ground. He got on top of me, and held me down untill he could get the scissors from me.
Once he got them away from me he helped me up, and helped me into the shower. When he left the bathroom I locked him out, and climbed out the window. I walked to the police statioin, and told them a big exaggerated story. I DID have bruises on my arms legs and face, but he didnt really do the things I told the cops. I was mad as hell that he wouldnt let me go cheat, and I wanted him to be punished. I played like I was afraid, but I really wasnt. I was just angry about getting caught in my adultery.
The cops went to our house and arrested him. I had no idea how much trouble he would be in. The Lawyers Ive talked to say he is facing 2 to 20 years in prison. I cant live with that. My kids love him, and he is NOT a violent man. He has been such a good Daddy for so long, and hes so gentle that he wont even spank our children. I cant imagine them growing up with him in prison.
I need to know what I have to do to help get him out of this. Its my fault, and I have since gotten baptized, and realize this is all because of my lying, and cheating. Somebody please help me figure out how to help him. Ill sign an affidavit of non prosecution , or contact the Judge, and DA if I need to. Whatever it takes. Im saving up to get him a lawyer. I need to know what steps I can take.
Back in 2015 my husband caught me having an affair. I got mad that I was caught, and attacked him. He restrained me, and called the police. When they got there they took HIM to jail, and I made up a big lie to protect myself from any charges. His lawyer convinced him to take probation rather than risk a trial. So for the past few years he has been dealing with the probation nonsense.
Well, a few months back he caught me having another affair (with a convicted child molester) and again he was heartbroken, and angry. Last month on his birthday I was going to leave to go to my affair partner, and my husband tried to block the doorway, and keep me from going. I grabbed a pair of scissors, and stabbed him with them. When I did he absolutely snapped. He grabbed me, and slammed me to the ground. He got on top of me, and held me down untill he could get the scissors from me.
Once he got them away from me he helped me up, and helped me into the shower. When he left the bathroom I locked him out, and climbed out the window. I walked to the police statioin, and told them a big exaggerated story. I DID have bruises on my arms legs and face, but he didnt really do the things I told the cops. I was mad as hell that he wouldnt let me go cheat, and I wanted him to be punished. I played like I was afraid, but I really wasnt. I was just angry about getting caught in my adultery.
The cops went to our house and arrested him. I had no idea how much trouble he would be in. The Lawyers Ive talked to say he is facing 2 to 20 years in prison. I cant live with that. My kids love him, and he is NOT a violent man. He has been such a good Daddy for so long, and hes so gentle that he wont even spank our children. I cant imagine them growing up with him in prison.
I need to know what I have to do to help get him out of this. Its my fault, and I have since gotten baptized, and realize this is all because of my lying, and cheating. Somebody please help me figure out how to help him. Ill sign an affidavit of non prosecution , or contact the Judge, and DA if I need to. Whatever it takes. Im saving up to get him a lawyer. I need to know what steps I can take.