My childrens mother passed away a few months ago and I have learned their aunt has spent almost $8000 of money gained from their mothers passing. Most of this was from work paychecks direct deposited into a shared account their mother had with the childrens aunt( shared account was because of a repossesed car few years prior)There was also a charity fundraiser the aunt had in the kids name to raise money(1700 dollars) for them that has been spent as well. My question is can I press charges against her even though she had a shared account with the childrens mother? Can I press charges for both the paychecks and charity donations.